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Post by Stlcrtn1974 » Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:30 am

Married in 2011. When was our last Super Bowl win? To bad he didn't get married after he retired.

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Post by Professor Half Wit » Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am

LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
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Post by RemoAZ » Wed Jun 24, 2020 5:31 am

Kodiak wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 3:22 am
I mean, you couldn't wait a few more years until you retired?

I'm not sure any of this comes as a big surprise given some of Ben's off-the-field issues. But he had to know how many questions this is going to generate.
That's the first thing I thought. Why bear your soul now? This will be a topic all year and his rape allegations will definitely come back to be part of the discussion. Ben loves the drama. He's probably missing the spotlight after being out for the year and the Brown shit finally going away. Only way to keep this from being a daily distraction is to resign Brown. Yeesh!
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Post by Steelafan77 » Wed Jun 24, 2020 10:47 am

I the history of additions I think alcohol and porn? to be the misdemeanors of addictions. :lol:


This seems a little more pressing to me...
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Post by Donnie Brasco » Wed Jun 24, 2020 12:46 pm

I'm sure the national media will treat Ben gently the same way they treated Favre with his alcoholism
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Post by Ice » Wed Jun 24, 2020 1:43 pm

In his defense, the "virtual conference" in question was a Christian symposium also attended by Coach Tomlin, and Ben was speaking in the context of having let his faith falter early in his career before rediscovering it in 2010. Context is a good thing.
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Post by fractalsteel » Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:04 pm

Scroll down and checkout the Alex Highsmith workout video.

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Post by Stosh-67 » Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:21 pm

fractalsteel wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:04 pm
Scroll down and checkout the Alex Highsmith workout video.
I would sign him
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Post by VeritasSteel » Wed Jun 24, 2020 3:12 pm

Ice wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 1:43 pm
In his defense, the "virtual conference" in question was a Christian symposium also attended by Coach Tomlin, and Ben was speaking in the context of having let his faith falter early in his career before rediscovering it in 2010. Context is a good thing.
Here is the link to his talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=322WHjRzyLs there were more than Tomlin and Ben there. Wolf and Tunch and Hurdle were there as well. I got this conference invite as an ad in a game I am wasting my time on. I should have posted it.

To quote Tyrion Lannister "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you".
I applaud Ben. Instead of running from his past, it looks like he's using it to help people.

No one is going to judge you for looking at some porn or having a couple of drinks. But if you are using porn as a substitute for being with a real person or if you cant get through the day without a lot of drinks- its a problem. Someone who has gone through it has to have the courage to tell someone struggling with it- and he did.

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Post by 955876 » Wed Jun 24, 2020 3:14 pm

Context is a good thing.
It is.

Too bad a large majority of media ignores it completely most times in their “reporting”.

Aside from that, good for Ben for having the courage to speak his truth.

Those who may try to tear him down for it will only be revealing their flaws & bias.

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Post by Ice » Wed Jun 24, 2020 4:27 pm

VeritasSteel wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 3:12 pm
Ice wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 1:43 pm
In his defense, the "virtual conference" in question was a Christian symposium also attended by Coach Tomlin, and Ben was speaking in the context of having let his faith falter early in his career before rediscovering it in 2010. Context is a good thing.
Here is the link to his talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=322WHjRzyLs there were more than Tomlin and Ben there. Wolf and Tunch and Hurdle were there as well. I got this conference invite as an ad in a game I am wasting my time on. I should have posted it.

To quote Tyrion Lannister "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you".
I applaud Ben. Instead of running from his past, it looks like he's using it to help people.

No one is going to judge you for looking at some porn or having a couple of drinks. But if you are using porn as a substitute for being with a real person or if you cant get through the day without a lot of drinks- its a problem. Someone who has gone through it has to have the courage to tell someone struggling with it- and he did.
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Post by steelmann58 » Fri Jun 26, 2020 12:39 am

Good for Ben and don't expect anything less from the media

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Post by jeemie » Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:20 am

The odds of there actually being a football season are slim to none at the moment...so Ben baring his soul just now is fine.
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Post by Havoc » Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:30 am

jeemie wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:20 am
The odds of there actually being a football season are slim to none at the moment...so Ben baring his soul just now is fine.
It's not looking good.

Only took 3 weeks back in my office before someone had symptoms so they shut the office back down until they find out the test results.

Even if that test comes back negative, damage has been done merely by the chaos of the possibility. Don't know what to expect from my company going forward.

I'm not overly concerned about catching it, chances of something terrible happening are slim, but I have asthma and I don't like anything screwing with my lungs so I'd rather not catch it. Plus I have an open court case regarding custody of my son and I do not want additional complications.

It's still possible come mid August we might find the summer did have a positive effect, we haven't hit July yet. Having my doubts at this point though.
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Post by COR-TEN » Fri Jun 26, 2020 5:38 pm

Havoc wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:30 am
jeemie wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:20 am
The odds of there actually being a football season are slim to none at the moment...so Ben baring his soul just now is fine.
It's not looking good.

Only took 3 weeks back in my office before someone had symptoms so they shut the office back down until they find out the test results.

Even if that test comes back negative, damage has been done merely by the chaos of the possibility. Don't know what to expect from my company going forward.

I'm not overly concerned about catching it, chances of something terrible happening are slim, but I have asthma and I don't like anything screwing with my lungs so I'd rather not catch it. Plus I have an open court case regarding custody of my son and I do not want additional complications.

It's still possible come mid August we might find the summer did have a positive effect, we haven't hit July yet. Having my doubts at this point though.
Must be tough being a steelers fan in Irving. . .
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Post by PennyBacker » Sat Jun 27, 2020 3:06 pm

VeritasSteel wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 3:12 pm

Here is the link to his talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=322WHjRzyLs there were more than Tomlin and Ben there. Wolf and Tunch and Hurdle were there as well. I got this conference invite as an ad in a game I am wasting my time on. I should have posted it.

To quote Tyrion Lannister "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you".
I applaud Ben. Instead of running from his past, it looks like he's using it to help people.

No one is going to judge you for looking at some porn or having a couple of drinks. But if you are using porn as a substitute for being with a real person or if you cant get through the day without a lot of drinks- its a problem. Someone who has gone through it has to have the courage to tell someone struggling with it- and he did.
Very cool interview. Thank you for posting!

Ben said "It's cool to be a Christian and be an athlete." Right on, I believe and encourage that.

He has matured significantly since the early years of his football career.

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Post by Havoc » Sat Jun 27, 2020 3:25 pm

CORE-TEN wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 5:38 pm
Havoc wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:30 am
jeemie wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:20 am
The odds of there actually being a football season are slim to none at the moment...so Ben baring his soul just now is fine.
It's not looking good.

Only took 3 weeks back in my office before someone had symptoms so they shut the office back down until they find out the test results.

Even if that test comes back negative, damage has been done merely by the chaos of the possibility. Don't know what to expect from my company going forward.

I'm not overly concerned about catching it, chances of something terrible happening are slim, but I have asthma and I don't like anything screwing with my lungs so I'd rather not catch it. Plus I have an open court case regarding custody of my son and I do not want additional complications.

It's still possible come mid August we might find the summer did have a positive effect, we haven't hit July yet. Having my doubts at this point though.
Must be tough being a steelers fan in Irving. . .
haha Cowboys fans got beat down by all those years of .500 football and 1 playoff win post '96 SB thru 2013 so for the most part they have become tolerable.

Plenty of Steelers fans in this area, since, well, we are everywhere.

Lots of fans from other teams in DFW too due to so many people having moved here from other states.

I do remember once last year or the year before sitting at a sports bar wearing a Steelers cap and someone said about my cap, "It hurts to even look at that" LOL He was a Cowboys fan who had lived thru the 70s and that wound had not healed :D
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Post by SteelerDayTrader » Sat Jun 27, 2020 5:34 pm

This sucks.

Debauchery is the breeding ground of raw greatness.

Ben has been Yoko'ed and relgioned.

Not at all good things as far as greatness is concerned.

Both of those deal in being average and accepting mediocrity

Not impossible to succeed again but its gonna be harder
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Post by Jobu » Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:06 pm

“When the roosters are crowing and the cows are spinning circles in the pasture… Um, Okay — Ducks fly together!”
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Post by COR-TEN » Sat Jun 27, 2020 6:07 pm

Havoc wrote:
Sat Jun 27, 2020 3:25 pm
CORE-TEN wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 5:38 pm
Havoc wrote:
Fri Jun 26, 2020 3:30 am


It's not looking good.

Only took 3 weeks back in my office before someone had symptoms so they shut the office back down until they find out the test results.

Even if that test comes back negative, damage has been done merely by the chaos of the possibility. Don't know what to expect from my company going forward.

I'm not overly concerned about catching it, chances of something terrible happening are slim, but I have asthma and I don't like anything screwing with my lungs so I'd rather not catch it. Plus I have an open court case regarding custody of my son and I do not want additional complications.

It's still possible come mid August we might find the summer did have a positive effect, we haven't hit July yet. Having my doubts at this point though.
Must be tough being a steelers fan in Irving. . .
haha Cowboys fans got beat down by all those years of .500 football and 1 playoff win post '96 SB thru 2013 so for the most part they have become tolerable.

Plenty of Steelers fans in this area, since, well, we are everywhere.

Lots of fans from other teams in DFW too due to so many people having moved here from other states.

I do remember once last year or the year before sitting at a sports bar wearing a Steelers cap and someone said about my cap, "It hurts to even look at that" LOL He was a Cowboys fan who had lived thru the 70s and that wound had not healed :D
I don't think the wound of jackie smith will ever heal. . . :lol: Not quite like bill buckner because the steelers were simply a better team, but still.
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Post by Orangesteel » Sun Jun 28, 2020 2:24 am

I’m not religious at all but I commend Ben for finding some balance in his life. He was in his 20s, young, dumb and full of cum and rich. Plus famous. Shit was probably coming at him fast. He’s a family dude now and sees the bigger picture. Good for him.
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Post by Professor Half Wit » Sun Jun 28, 2020 11:48 am

SteelerDayTrader wrote:
Sat Jun 27, 2020 5:34 pm
This sucks.

Debauchery is the breeding ground of raw greatness.

Ben has been Yoko'ed and relgioned.

Not at all good things as far as greatness is concerned.

Both of those deal in being average and accepting mediocrity

Not impossible to succeed again but its gonna be harder
Say more, I’m going to take notes.
“Being a fan is fine, but there is a line you can cross that makes it really unhealthy,” said Ken Yeager, PhD, a mental health expert in the department of psychiatry at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center.

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Post by zeke5123 » Sun Jun 28, 2020 1:28 pm

SteelerDayTrader wrote:
Sat Jun 27, 2020 5:34 pm
This sucks.

Debauchery is the breeding ground of raw greatness.

Ben has been Yoko'ed and relgioned.

Not at all good things as far as greatness is concerned.

Both of those deal in being average and accepting mediocrity

Not impossible to succeed again but its gonna be harder
Yep — no family man or devout religious adherent ever accomplished anything of greatness.

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Post by swissvale72 » Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am

Professor Half Wit wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am
LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
It is; that's true.

More my point was that his being hung out to dry prior to Draft Day 2010 by the Douchebag Art II, contributed to Ben somewhat losing his edge. I really did, and perhaps still do, that he was a guy we could count on to make that winning drive, as in SB XLIII, when he was a jagoff.

Happens to a lot of us when we get married and settled, yes?

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Post by Thrillsseeker » Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:24 pm

swissvale72 wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am
Professor Half Wit wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am
LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
It is; that's true.

More my point was that his being hung out to dry prior to Draft Day 2010 by the Douchebag Art II, contributed to Ben somewhat losing his edge. I really did, and perhaps still do, that he was a guy we could count on to make that winning drive, as in SB XLIII, when he was a jagoff.

Happens to a lot of us when we get married and settled, yes?
Good to see you Swiss.

I totally believe Ben being bung out to dry by Art II was a major reason for that edge Ben had diminishing or appear to diminish. Getting your legs cut out from under you by your employer is a mountain to get over.

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Post by Professor Half Wit » Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:35 pm

swissvale72 wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am
Professor Half Wit wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am
LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
It is; that's true.

More my point was that his being hung out to dry prior to Draft Day 2010 by the Douchebag Art II, contributed to Ben somewhat losing his edge. I really did, and perhaps still do, that he was a guy we could count on to make that winning drive, as in SB XLIII, when he was a jagoff.

Happens to a lot of us when we get married and settled, yes?
Good to read something from you.

I was just pleased to see a citation of the Swiss Doctrine.
“Being a fan is fine, but there is a line you can cross that makes it really unhealthy,” said Ken Yeager, PhD, a mental health expert in the department of psychiatry at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center.

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Post by Donnie Brasco » Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:51 pm

Thrillsseeker wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:24 pm
swissvale72 wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am
Professor Half Wit wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am
LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
It is; that's true.

More my point was that his being hung out to dry prior to Draft Day 2010 by the Douchebag Art II, contributed to Ben somewhat losing his edge. I really did, and perhaps still do, that he was a guy we could count on to make that winning drive, as in SB XLIII, when he was a jagoff.

Happens to a lot of us when we get married and settled, yes?
Good to see you Swiss.

I totally believe Ben being bung out to dry by Art II was a major reason for that edge Ben had diminishing or appear to diminish. Getting your legs cut out from under you by your employer is a mountain to get over.
Fully agree

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Post by bradshaw2ben » Mon Jun 29, 2020 1:59 pm

swissvale72 wrote:
Mon Jun 29, 2020 10:20 am
Professor Half Wit wrote:
Wed Jun 24, 2020 2:46 am
LULZ

That’s Swiss’ thesis, Stlcrtn!
It is; that's true.

More my point was that his being hung out to dry prior to Draft Day 2010 by the Douchebag Art II, contributed to Ben somewhat losing his edge. I really did, and perhaps still do, that he was a guy we could count on to make that winning drive, as in SB XLIII, when he was a jagoff.

Happens to a lot of us when we get married and settled, yes?
I'm inclined to agree that the events of that offseason humbled Ben and took away a measure of his invincibility, one could argue Ben was making that winning drive in the Super Bowl of 2010-11 season, if not for Kemo von Mendenhall.
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